Entertaining
Candlelight, layered plates and flowers low enough to talk over. How we set a holiday table, shown in ten of our projects.
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A holiday table should look generous and feel easy. Here is how we set one, with pieces you probably already own.
01Light every candle
Dim the chandelier and let candles do the work. Mix heights and keep them unscented so they never compete with dinner. Brass, wood or a row of simple tapers all look festive.
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Shop this photo Arteriors Rex pendant Jonathan Adler Rider dining chair in teal velvet Scout Nadya dining table Etsy Natural smoky quartz bowl
02Layer each place setting
A charger, a dinner plate and a smaller plate on top give every seat height. Mixing patterns is easy if you keep one thing constant, like the color or the flatware.
03Bring out the good china
This is the time to use it. A glass-front cabinet keeps it in sight all year and makes setting the table half the fun.
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04Keep flowers low
Guests should see each other across the table. Keep arrangements under about fourteen inches and save the big, dramatic one for the sideboard.
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05Set up the bar away from the table
A bar in another room keeps guests moving and the host out of the kitchen. Put out the glasses, a bowl of citrus and something to snack on.
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06Plan for the morning after
House guests remember breakfast too. A bowl of clementines and fresh flowers on the kitchen table make the next day feel like part of the holiday.
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Before guests arrive
- Set the table the day before.
- Leave room for serving dishes.
- Light the candles first, then answer the door.
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